Patience...?

Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us.

When we deal with people we know we can trust, we know that we have someone that we can confide in with any given secret in our lives, and know that it will not ever be leaked. We know that we could give them the shirts off of our back if they needed it, and that they would give us the shirt off of their back if we needed it. Trust is one of the biggest relationship makers and breakers, because with trust a relationship is able to grow, and without trust a relationship will crumble.

Patience. When you're sitting in the waiting room, anxious for answers and a cure for your pain. When you are waiting in line, desperate for that one thing that will satisfy your need, quench your desirous thirst. Sitting at home, thinking but not speaking, when you want nothing more than to pluck up the courage to take a leap and say what you feel. All through life we are taught to wait, taught that patience is a virtue and we will always get what we want if we stay patient and never stop believing. "Love is patient, love is kind. Love never boasts." It's all about patience. Sitting and watching. Silently hoping and praying. Patience.

In order for a relationship to be excessively great it is important to find someone that gives you the confidence and support to succeed in life. If you are in a relationship that holds your hand and feel as if they are pulling you backwards instead of making you feel as though you may be able to conquer the world, then you may need to re-examine the relationship that you are in.

When a person is good for you there will be negative moments between the two of you, but for the most part the interactions between the two of you will be positive and the feelings and positivism you gain from your significant other will only help to further your journey to accomplish your dreams and aspirations. When you have someone who makes you feel like with them behind you, you may accomplish anything, hold on to this person, and make sure that you make them feel the same way. Never try to limit someone else's dreams in the chase of your own.

Don't Ignore...

When you are around someone so long who loves you it is easy to take them for granted. One of the many challenges of a relationship is keeping it fresh, and not taking for granted that you are in one. In order to do this we must show how much we love one another everyday, forgetting to do so will simply lead a relationship to its demise.

There are many things you can do to show someone how much you appreciate and love them. Maybe try taking them to a place you might not like going so much, but know that they will enjoy. Simply showing your lover affection at a time when you usually don't will also show how much you appreciate them, maybe a simple hug if you don't hug much, or maybe sending flowers to their work may earn you some extra brownie points, and maybe even a tad bit extra. In order to counteract the mundaneness that seeps into any relationship over a period of time, it is best to be spontaneous and loving, even when you don't want to be. In fact doing things when you don't want to do them is probably the best time...

*Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars